- Cyberbullying is a growing concern in South Africa, characterised by the use of technology to harass and intimidate individuals.
- An expert stresses the pervasiveness and harmful effects of cyberbullying.
- He emphasising the need for collective action to prevent cyberbullying and support affected individuals.
Cyberbullying is emerging as a severe issue in South Africa, with increasing cases highlighting the need for urgent intervention. Defined as the use of technology to harass, intimidate, or threaten someone, cyberbullying can cause significant harm and distress to its victims.
“Unlike traditional bullying, which is often limited to physical spaces and certain hours, cyberbullying extends beyond the school gates, offering perpetrators 24/7 access to their targets,” says Grant Hinds, a well-known tech and gaming content creator.
Hinds emphasises the pervasive nature of cyberbullying. “Bullying at school happens during certain hours and is often physical and visible. However, cyberbullying occurs both inside and outside of school, allowing bullies to harm their victims at any time,” Hinds explains.
He adds that cyberbullying is not always direct. “It can involve group chats that exclude someone, where harmful rumors and information are spread about the victim.”
Online bullying underestimated
A particularly troubling aspect of cyberbullying is that a child doesn’t need to have a cellphone or internet access to be targeted. “There are instances where children are bullied in group chats even when they are not part of these groups,” Hinds notes.
He compares the exclusion in online spaces to social exclusion during school activities, stating that both have similar detrimental effects.
Parents often underestimate the seriousness of online bullying.
“Many parents glorify traditional bullying and dismiss cyberbullying as not real,” Hinds says. However, the destructive impact of cyberbullying on a child’s mental and emotional well-being is undeniable. Children often bully due to problems at home, seeking to assert control and power at school.
Hinds stresses the importance of a supportive home environment.
he advises.
He also highlights the competitive mindset prevalent in society, where children see school as a battleground rather than a place for mutual support. “We need to teach kids to build each other up instead of tearing each other down.”
Addressing cyberbullying requires collective action. Hinds urges children to call out cyberbullying when they see it. “If you witness something wrong, say it’s unacceptable. If you see someone sharing inappropriate content about another student, speak out against it.”
Legal framework, understanding the problem
In response to the growing menace of cyberbullying, South Africa has implemented stringent laws. The Cybercrimes Act makes cyberbullying a criminal offense, punishable by fines and/or imprisonment for up to 10 years. The Act also establishes a reporting system for cyberbullying incidents, requiring internet service providers and social media platforms to report and investigate cases.
“If you or someone you know is experiencing cyberbullying, resources like the South African Police Service and organisations such as the South African Cyberbullying Centre are available for support,” says Kevin Alexander from the Alexander Institute.
The reasons behind cyberbullying are complex and varied. Some common factors include:
- Anonymity: The internet allows individuals to remain anonymous, making it easier to engage in bullying behaviour without fear of consequences.
- Social status: Some individuals use cyberbullying to assert power or status over their peers.
- Insecurity and low self-esteem: Bullies may target others to distract from their insecurities.
- Lack of empathy: Some individuals may not understand or care about the harm they cause.
- Peer pressure: Others may engage in cyberbullying to fit in with a group or avoid being targeted themselves.
- Ease of access: The widespread use of social media and online platforms provide a convenient venue for bullying.
- Lack of effective consequences: Cyberbullying can be difficult to trace and punish, making it seem like a “safe” behaviour.
- Mental health issues: Some bullies may be struggling with mental health issues, such as depression or anxiety.
says Alexander.
He adds that it is essential to address the behaviour and support those affected.
“Cyberbullying can have devastating effects on victims, impacting their mental, emotional, and even physical health,” says Alexander.
- Emotional distress: Victims may experience sadness, anger, humiliation, fear, and isolation.
- Mental health problems: Increased risk of depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts.
- Self-esteem issues: Constant negativity can lead to self-doubt and low self-esteem.
- Social isolation: Victims may withdraw from friends and family.
- Physical health problems: Stress can manifest in physical symptoms like trouble sleeping, changes in appetite, headaches, or stomachaches.
- School difficulties: Victims may have trouble concentrating, skip classes, or experience a decline in grades.
“These effects can be long-lasting,” Alexander warns. “Even after the cyberbullying stops, victims may continue to struggle with emotional and social problems.”
Preventing cyberbullying requires a collective effort from individuals, parents, schools, and communities.
- Be kind and respectful online.
- Think before posting, considering the potential impact of your words.
- Keep personal information private.Block or report bullies.
- Avoid sharing mean or embarrassing content about others.
“Prevention is a collective effort. By working together, we can create safer online environments and support those affected by cyberbullying,” Alexander concluded.
- Discuss cyberbullying with your children.
- Set clear online boundaries and consequences.
- Monitor online activities.
- Encourage open communication.Teach empathy and kindness online.
- For schools and communitiesImplement anti-bullying programmes.
- Educate students and staff about cyberbullying.
- Promote a culture of kindness and respect.Provide support for victims of cyberbullying.
- Engage parents and guardians in anti-bullying efforts.
